Married? Single? Each has its advantages and disadvantages. Each can affect serving God and serving in your church. God puts each of us in the situation best suited for us individually to accomplish the job he has pland for us. If we're married, we should stay that way. If we're single, we should be satisfied to stay that way unless the Lord brings someone along. How can we best serve? We should be like the angels who are completely focused on God and just waiting for his instructions.